Obedience vs Psyche! and some doubts about Dominate Kine

Hi,

The other day playing with some friends, one of them played a superior Majesty (untap and combat ends) which was followed by a Psyche! by the opposing vampire. Then, the vampire who played the majesty, answered with an Obedience; claiming that the only requirement for it to be played, was to be a non-active vampire about to enter combat with a younger one.

Now, the text on Obedience says that the action is ended. And, as far as I know, the action ends after a resulting combat from it (whether blocked or not). So, If you play a Psyche! after a combat end, although there's a new combat, the action should have already ended and there is no window for the Obedience effect to take place.

Am I wrong?

Now, on the Dominate Kine issue. If I use the card to steal, say, an Ankara Citadel. Does the card go to the vampire who played it, or can I choose any of my vampires as the new owner?

Thanks for your answers